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Love and Lust

When you tell someone you love them, do you actually mean it? How do you know that what you are feeling is actually love and not a lustful obsession?

I think that everyone just throws the word Love around without really meaning it. Once upon a time when someone would say "I love you" they meant it and sometimes would even wait for the right moment to say it. Now after a day of dating people saying it as easy and as carefree as if they were saying "hello". What amazes me the most is how easily people move on from one person to another. If you say you love someone don't you need time to heal from the pain of the love that you no longer have in your life? I must admit that I am guilty of this myself. I've loved with all my heart only to move on faster than I change underwear to the next guy. Why? Well in my case I do it because I have to distract myself from the pain that I am feeling. I suppose you can say I am rebounding to the next guy. I know I am not the only one that does this. I am sure there are many others like me that do this. But what confuses me is how fast you can "fall in love" with your rebound. Could it be that you were never really in love with your original partner in the first place?

 Wikipedia says  Love  is an emotion of strong affection and person attachment. Yes, when you love someone you become attached to them. You need them in your life to feel complete. So if you have the ability to move on to a new person then in reality you were not in love. When in love you shouldn't be able to "un-attach" yourself so quickly. But then how do you know its time to move on? How do you know when you are healed enough to say fuck it I need to start looking for another person to fill that happiness and that void that you feel in your heart. Maybe time ca't be measured the same. Everyone is different, maybe you can heal after a week, maybe a month or perhaps even years. Is there a right time?

So what do you do when you are still in love with the one that moved on only days after the break up? You can love someone with all your heart but if they can't realize it and have chosen to leave you behind then just move on.  The best thing to do to keep yourself from being hurt by people like this that say they love you today and forget you tomorrow is by being very, very careful as to who you let inside your heart. Don't shut everyone out but just don't be so quick to fall in love. Remember that just because they tell you they love you doesn't mean you have to say it back. Don't feel pressured to feel a emotion that isn't there. And if someone is being quick to say they love you just keep in mind that actions speak much louder than words. Have them show you by the actions they do everyday not just by the words that fall from their mouth.

Okay my lovely little Dino lovers my question for you is....

HAVE YOU EVER SAID I LOVE YOU AND NOT MEANT IT? WHAT DID YOU DO TO GET OVER AN EX THAT MOVED ON FROM YOU QUICKER THAN YOU COULD SAY GOOD BYE?

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Top 10- Valentines day

Valentines Day is near and with it brings teddy bears, boxes of chocolate, romantic dinners and all that other lovey dovey shit that supposedly love is all about. Yes, I know what you're thinking "Here she goes again being all negative again" but this time you are wrong. If you have a significant other to spend this day with then congratulations you are pretty much set. This post is to all my single little dinos that have noone or don't have a date for that night.

Ye,s I am dedicating today's post to all my FOREVER ALONES that are out there. A dedication to you because sadly it is not you're fault that you're spending it alone and trust me you're probably not going to be the only one this year. I, too have decided NOT to have a date this year, since I am currently single I decided THE HELL WITH THIS HOLIDAY. I am going to have fun and just treat it like any other day because to be quite honest I don't want to spend this day with just a guy who probably only wants the end the night doing the hanky panky dance in the between the sheets (don't get me wrong it doesn't sound like a bad idea but I can do that any other day of the week) but enough rambling on to the:

 TOP 10- Valentines Day Forever Alone edition:

(some of these will require gathering your other single friends)

10. Movies with single friends- As I said before you will probably not be the only one alone so why not call up those single friends and hit up the movies. Comedies are always a nice way to relax and just have a good laugh

9. Clubbing- Put on your best outfit or if you're a girl put on your sexiest whored out dress and invite one your friends to hit up the club. Dance..Dance..Dance!!!  Alot of clubs will host single only dances so what better way to enjoy this holiday than possibly meeting other single people and showing off your best dance moves... who knows you might end the night not exactly alone hehe.

8. Bar hopping- I know I know! This probably looks the same as clubbing but NOOO it is not. Bar hopping doesn't involve dancing. And you can just dress casual of course if you're a girl you still want to look sexy. Grab a buddy and go bar hopping have fun  and just have the time of your life. Remember that night is just like any other night, no point in being a sad or depressed drunk. The point is to have fun and NOT be that person people end up leaving for being such a depressing jerkoff.

7. Host a small party- Why not? Have a party at your house invite all those single people you know and just have fun. Shows that you don't care that you have no date because you're going to have a kick ass Valentines day regardless. Not only that but your place might even end up being the after party for once all the little love birds are done with the dinner dates.

6. Online Gaming- This one is more for the dudes that might be reading this post. Nothing wrong with staying home with your buddies and just game the night away. Hell I am almost tempted to do this my self. (I really need to work on my killstreak haha)

5. Go away- Yes, go away. Plan a short trip out of town. Why not? Nothing should really be stopping you since you don't have a date. Go explore a new town, get out of your secured little bubble. It is time to spread those wings my little dino and just see what else the world has to offer. It serves as a great distraction, right?


4. Spoil yourself- Why not buy yourself a present? Girls get those new shoes you wanted or that sexy little outfit that you have been eyeing for a while. Maybe even do a little spa treatment for yourself. Guys you know you want to buy a new game or maybe some type of new electronics who knows what you dudes like but buy it. You deserve to spoil yourself sometimes.

3. Spend it online- I know I will get a hard time about this one but I mean c'mon we are in the era where technology is everything. It is not like the old days where being in online communities was considered nerdy and for the desperate. Nowadays you find all kinds of people online and it can serve as a distraction.

2. Have an booty call- Sorry I had to say it. Nothing wrong with a little bump and grind. 

1. Just don't care- At the end of the day you can do what you want. Just don't care and don't dwell on the fact that your single on Valentines' Day because guess what it is not the end of the world. Just have fun and enjoy the fuck out it.

What will you be doing on Valentines Day?

Well my lovely little dinos hope you all have a fun and great Valentines day.. And don't forget to comment below and share with all the weirdos in your life.
Byeeeeeeeeee