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Love and Lust

When you tell someone you love them, do you actually mean it? How do you know that what you are feeling is actually love and not a lustful obsession?

I think that everyone just throws the word Love around without really meaning it. Once upon a time when someone would say "I love you" they meant it and sometimes would even wait for the right moment to say it. Now after a day of dating people saying it as easy and as carefree as if they were saying "hello". What amazes me the most is how easily people move on from one person to another. If you say you love someone don't you need time to heal from the pain of the love that you no longer have in your life? I must admit that I am guilty of this myself. I've loved with all my heart only to move on faster than I change underwear to the next guy. Why? Well in my case I do it because I have to distract myself from the pain that I am feeling. I suppose you can say I am rebounding to the next guy. I know I am not the only one that does this. I am sure there are many others like me that do this. But what confuses me is how fast you can "fall in love" with your rebound. Could it be that you were never really in love with your original partner in the first place?

 Wikipedia says  Love  is an emotion of strong affection and person attachment. Yes, when you love someone you become attached to them. You need them in your life to feel complete. So if you have the ability to move on to a new person then in reality you were not in love. When in love you shouldn't be able to "un-attach" yourself so quickly. But then how do you know its time to move on? How do you know when you are healed enough to say fuck it I need to start looking for another person to fill that happiness and that void that you feel in your heart. Maybe time ca't be measured the same. Everyone is different, maybe you can heal after a week, maybe a month or perhaps even years. Is there a right time?

So what do you do when you are still in love with the one that moved on only days after the break up? You can love someone with all your heart but if they can't realize it and have chosen to leave you behind then just move on.  The best thing to do to keep yourself from being hurt by people like this that say they love you today and forget you tomorrow is by being very, very careful as to who you let inside your heart. Don't shut everyone out but just don't be so quick to fall in love. Remember that just because they tell you they love you doesn't mean you have to say it back. Don't feel pressured to feel a emotion that isn't there. And if someone is being quick to say they love you just keep in mind that actions speak much louder than words. Have them show you by the actions they do everyday not just by the words that fall from their mouth.

Okay my lovely little Dino lovers my question for you is....

HAVE YOU EVER SAID I LOVE YOU AND NOT MEANT IT? WHAT DID YOU DO TO GET OVER AN EX THAT MOVED ON FROM YOU QUICKER THAN YOU COULD SAY GOOD BYE?

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